| a. |
Build your child's self
esteem : Make your child feel like a valued member of the family, one whose thoughts,
feelings and desires are given equal consideration and are never belittled. |
| b. |
Don't force your toddler to
share : Pushing your child implies that you consider his / her needs less significant than
those of others. Believing that their possessions are up for grabs can make them feel
insecure and unsettled. |
| c. |
Introduce the concept of
other people's ownership : Toddlers need to learn that some things belong to the group.
They also need to know that they have to take turns for an empty swing. |
| d. |
Put your toddler's
resistance to sharing in perspective : Unwilling to part with their favourite toy may seem
unreasonable, but is actually valid. As an adult we do not like to part with our favourite
things. |
| e. |
Acknowledge to your toddler
that it is hard to share : Instead of scolding the toddler empathize, saying, "I know
it is a hard to share your bus. Its very special to you", such understanding will
help your toddler overcome reluctance to share sooner. |
| f. |
Do not share for your
toddler : Your toddler's toys belong to him. Show you recognize that and always ask his
permission before offering them to his friends. |
| g. |
Share with your toddler :
Toddlers imitate their parents very fast. Make a point to share your meal, book, etc. with
him. |
| h. |
Compliment all efforts of
sharing : Whenever your toddler agrees to share, praise him for the act of kindness.
Reward him at times. |
