Children are
very sensitive and observant. They pick up on the tensions and undercurrents. Children's
world revolves round their parents. Parents are their security blanket. This security
gives a child his confidence. When a child witnesses his parents fighting, it has a lot of
psychological impact on him. He may behave or react aggressively. Throw temper tantrums.
He may feel hostile towards one or both his parents. He may complain of stomach aches,
headaches, etc.
It is very necessary for
parents to draw the lines of battle. It is very important that they express their anger
and communicate their frustration privately, in ways that do not affect children
adversely. If any issue has to be resolved, wait till the children are asleep or go into
another room. If a child witnesses a fight make it a point to let him know that sometimes
parents to fight, but it does not mean that they love each other or their children any
less. Explain to a child that losing the temper was a mistake and make every attempt to be
normal and united in front of your children as soon as possible. |